At Her Feet

Women from my perspective... looking up, mentally and physically.

Upscale 50's married guy, lifelong submissive, married to a vanilla domme who sort of knows but would rather not. As time goes on, I find I am much more intersted in the dynamics involved in a domestic discipline or a cuckolding relationship, as opposed to just the physical acts typically associated with these interests. Said differently, it's less about the fetish and more about the raw, primitive, ungaurded intimacy and vulnerability.

Almost all of my posts are reblogs from other tumblr sites. Recently I have started putting my comments to the respost in bold to distinguish them from earlier comments. There are are few images reposted from blogs on other systems like blogspot, which I try to attribute. If there is something that is yours you would like removed, please let me know and I will quickly oblige.

husband-discipline:

"Don’t stare at what I am wearing, look at what I am carrying."


My mistress has promised that, should I ever get divorced, I will not be allowed to go on a fourth date with any woman until she is had lunch with my mistress.

husband-discipline:

"Don’t stare at what I am wearing, look at what I am carrying."

My mistress has promised that, should I ever get divorced, I will not be allowed to go on a fourth date with any woman until she is had lunch with my mistress.

(Source: she-rules)

when the fantasy becomes a painful reality.

when the fantasy becomes a painful reality.

(Source: littlebig1963)

mross123123:

God please never let this happen!!

Actually, any of us under 6” should have a different color license, so anyone can instantly tell every time will pull it out in public.

mross123123:

God please never let this happen!!

Actually, any of us under 6” should have a different color license, so anyone can instantly tell every time will pull it out in public.

(Source: ashandj, via littlebig1963)

Transition from fun fantasy to painful, embarrassing reality occurs at precisely the moment she decides she is not embarrassed for people to know she disciplines you.
Credit to contemplatingthedevine.blogspot.com

Transition from fun fantasy to painful, embarrassing reality occurs at precisely the moment she decides she is not embarrassed for people to know she disciplines you.

Credit to contemplatingthedevine.blogspot.com

pet-trap:

No Sweetie … I’m not “Upset” …
that you came home too late for the Restaurant booking …
"Upset" is what I insist my pets get …
So best you “Drop em” there’s a good boi …

It’s going to be misery as well.

pet-trap:

No Sweetie … I’m not “Upset” …

that you came home too late for the Restaurant booking …

"Upset" is what I insist my pets get …

So best you “Drop em” there’s a good boi …

It’s going to be misery as well.

(Source: spanked2tears)

Proof that there is no justice in the world: This has not happened to me.

Proof that there is no justice in the world: This has not happened to me.

(Source: littlebig1963)

What happens when I break the rules…

What happens when I break the rules…

I soooo deserve to have to satisfy a man like this.
sissyfucker:

My biggest frustration with so many sissies is their desire to find a daddy figure who will show them how to dress, act, do their makeup, etc. the problem with this logic is that real men don’t know the first thing about being feminine and frankly don’t give a shit.
Most men don’t want to have to baby you and do all the work to make your masculine features feminine. We don’t have the time and we don’t want to deal with it. That’s your responsibility. Figure your own shit out before you even begin to bother a man with your endless need for his cock. As a sissy faggot you need a man, a man does not need you.
So what do you have to offer him? Neediness and dependence? Work to turn your sorry ass into something worth fucking? That’s a terrible deal for him, and frankly disrespectful. You are beneath him. You have to crawl and climb your way to his level, he’s not going to lower himself for your pathetic self.
When you begin to approach men for the first time, have your shit together. You need to be top-notch and over prepared. You should know how to dress, how to shave, how to restrain yourself, how to smell, how to do your makeup. This is not his job. You’re his relief. Don’t make it into his work. You exist to serve him. So serve him!
Learn some fucking discipline. Stop jerking that useless thing you call a clit. Your release turns you into an ungrateful piece of shit that no one wants around. Your constant arousal reminds you of your place. If you’re not committed to that then as far as real men are concerned you can fuck right off. You’re not here for yourself you cumwhore, and to think you are, or act like you are is arrogant and not worth my time.
Never forget your place, faggots. Under the heel of real men.

I soooo deserve to have to satisfy a man like this.

sissyfucker:

My biggest frustration with so many sissies is their desire to find a daddy figure who will show them how to dress, act, do their makeup, etc. the problem with this logic is that real men don’t know the first thing about being feminine and frankly don’t give a shit.

Most men don’t want to have to baby you and do all the work to make your masculine features feminine. We don’t have the time and we don’t want to deal with it. That’s your responsibility. Figure your own shit out before you even begin to bother a man with your endless need for his cock. As a sissy faggot you need a man, a man does not need you.

So what do you have to offer him? Neediness and dependence? Work to turn your sorry ass into something worth fucking? That’s a terrible deal for him, and frankly disrespectful. You are beneath him. You have to crawl and climb your way to his level, he’s not going to lower himself for your pathetic self.

When you begin to approach men for the first time, have your shit together. You need to be top-notch and over prepared. You should know how to dress, how to shave, how to restrain yourself, how to smell, how to do your makeup. This is not his job. You’re his relief. Don’t make it into his work. You exist to serve him. So serve him!

Learn some fucking discipline. Stop jerking that useless thing you call a clit. Your release turns you into an ungrateful piece of shit that no one wants around. Your constant arousal reminds you of your place. If you’re not committed to that then as far as real men are concerned you can fuck right off. You’re not here for yourself you cumwhore, and to think you are, or act like you are is arrogant and not worth my time.

Never forget your place, faggots. Under the heel of real men.

(Source: horny-trap-littlesissy-femboy, via anonymous-gender)

What we want is to submit to the object of our lust.  What we deserve is to become her lover’s bitch.

What we want is to submit to the object of our lust.  What we deserve is to become her lover’s bitch.

(Source: heartlesswives, via littlebig1963)