I often think about what I don’t get from Anne.
But it’s not just what I don’t get. It’s what I’ll never, ever get. Sometimes it’s weird to think about it. Forever is a long time.
Most men have hope that certain things might happen. A beautiful girl might seduce them one day, their wife or…
I certainly relate to the first half.
Anonymous asked: Ms. Becky - What are your views on chastity?
The most loyal among my followers should read no further, as I suppose I have already voiced my opinion here and there on this blog, but here goes.
First of all, I I’m convinced it is very healthy for a man to ejaculate frequently and not be subjected to protracted periods of denial. At the same time I believe it’s most beneficial for the male orgasm to be regulated - by a woman. If a man is made to earn the privilege of coming, he becomes a better man: more attentive to her, both in- and outside the bedroom. In particular, he will be more willing and become more apt at pleasuring her orally, which for most women is the preferred - and oftentimes only - route to orgasm (and multiple ones at that). Enforced chastity thus becomes an important motivator and therefore one of the great tools for preserving and strengthening a relationship.
Like I said before, I see hardly any reason why a man should be denied his orgasm for a long time or even altogether. The only drawback is the inevitable euphoria which leads to a temporary sense of independence. I for one love to have that explosion inside me and I don’t mind letting his euphoria reign for a (little) while. In a relationship a woman should be able to rein in that tendency once she feels it’s lasted long enough.
I guess many will consider my bf lucky, as he may climax like up to 3 or 4 times a week. It’s a lot less than what I’m getting, and a lot less than what those in the porn industry seem to prescribe, but I honestly do not believe he could do many more. Or maybe he could, but I think they would be less intense - whereas for me the intensity grows with each new orgasm. So it’s good for both of us.
However, like I said, he needs to deserve it and if I find he is lacking in any respect, he is not getting any. Simple as that. And I don’t feel sorry, even if it means his balls are painfully heavy for a week or more. But the very good thing is, that denial motivates him tremendously, so a week or more of chastity is quite rare.
Is a chastity device necessary? There’s no single answer to that and every woman must decide for herself. I myself fully trust him not to come without permission and I have never had any doubts that he deserves my trust. One reason for his good behavior, besides love and respect for his Mistress, may be that he thinks I may still some day introduce a chastity device. And indeed I am toying with the idea, as the thought of having that - physical - key does excite me more and more.hee
I could be trusted by my wife. If only she would ask.
This is what makes me so pathetic… it’s what I SHOULD feel if my wife wanted to fuck someone else… but it’s not what I actually would feel.
The first paragraph is all true.
Which is more shameful… that I’m majorly jealous of his lingerie, or that I want his dick in my mouth?
I could be James, as she describes: ”But for whatever reason he wants to feel inadequate sexually. He wants to feel unworthy of me. And furthermore he NEEDS to feel inadequate and unworthy. That is his sexuality.”
Reblogging this neat information from the wonderful Learning Domestic Discipline blog of Clint & Chelsea.
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